Now most people if you have read my previous post (Click here )would know that I live with my partner Paul and his mum.
Now I’m grateful to her for taking me in two years ago, I’m not going to take that away from her because I don’t know where I would be if it wasn’t for her taking me in! However she is one nasty piece of work! The things she says even if she is drunk I just can’t believe comes out of her mouth!
Now Ivy is 70 years old and she is one of those people that was a stay at home mum never worked, cooked for her husband. Don’t get me wrong I have nothing what so ever against stay at home mum’s I can’t imagine what it’s like! What I don’t like is when she forces her old age views on how I should not work be waiting for Paul to get home have his dinner ready and his lunch, all his clothes ironed! I’m sorry but I completely disagree with all of that totally, especially when I work 5 days a week as well. Me and Paul are a team we have always been we cook together all the time. Now I don’t believe that women should have to do all of that especially when I work as well. A relationship is meant to work both ways you do things for each other that way you both respect each other!
Now most times she screams at me saying I’m no girlfriend, I’m not good for Paul because I don’t have his dinner and lunch ready, or his clothes ironed! She has called me lazy and that he should get a different girlfriend!
Now what I do want to say it’s because of me that he can cook, iron and wash his clothes and right down to making his bed his 30 and he can’t even do that! Now before me he couldn’t do any of that she did everything for him, and that’s one thing that I said I wouldn’t do, I am no ones slave!
Now I’m going to tell you another nasty thing that she has said to me but first I must say before I had a lot of respect for her, but when she said those things I lost all respect for her!
Now every single day even today, she is always saying shit like oh when I got the carpet down you used to do the hoovering for me now that was before I was working full time. She also asks when I’m going to cook a nice meal for her. Now my response is Paul can cook as well!
One time maybe about 2 months ago poison Ivy as I call her, said that I would be a bad mother and that I shouldn’t ever have kids because I haven’t been nurtured properly! I know what a thing to say to a foster kid who is already worried that they might be a bad mother and is insecure!
Now ever since she said that its all I can think about, when my work colleague told me she was pregnant I broke down and cried because I was so worried that I am going to be a terrible one because of my history!
Thank you for reading my post!
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