I think that I must be crazy or something. Okay so let me explain, last week after everything that had happened with Paul,he had explained that he had let a lot of his letters slip by, so I offered to open them for him and sort them out. So after he dropped them off, I opened them and I found that a lot of them were about accounts that were about to close or outstanding, insurance, debt management, and tax for his car. These are all important, so I informed him that they all need to be sorted. Therefore I offered to pay some of them to help get him back on track with everything.
However this is where I really think because one of the reasons why I broke up with him is because I was fed up with always having to pay for everything all the time. So here I am, we aren’t together but I’m still paying for his stuff. I feel like I have to help him because I feel responsible for him, like its my fault that he is in this situation in the first place. I then also think that if I help him now then he will never learn or be bothered to do it himself because most of the time that we were together I always did everything for him.
I start to think that would it be best if I took a step back and Paul handle all his own stuff himself, to ensure that he grows up and knows how to handle his finances. Do you think that I am crazy?